Guarding my heart..

Guard your heart for it is the wellspring of life or so the bible says and i have had the biggest problem in this area of my life.This is because i trust too fast and love too much,i know many who read this will attest to the fact that at times we are just blown away by people who come into our lives we forget the words of wisdom we have most probably heard all our lives,throw caution to the wind and end up giving up our hearts to strangers, to people we probably should have taken time to get to know better and then we start mourning after we are facing the consequences of hurrying into forming relationships.

Its a bug and sometimes you cant help but be blown away by the promise of new possibilities we are overwhelmed by the expectations of better things and here we lose focus,we lose that which makes us think twice..call it greed i do; the thought that someone will make us probably feel better about ourselves ,spend time with us, give us a few laughs and a reason to pick up our phones makes us forget that yes this persons are cool but they are still human and yes they could hurt us irrevocably they could wound us irreparably.

I digress,Guard your heart for it is the wellspring of life that means no rash decisions ,no saying yes when  you haven't taken the time to analyse what is before you or done any research on the facts presented,you haven't even paused to pray about it . Your heart is the origin of all things nice and heavenly if you ask me,it is the one place where you can find peace in yourself it is a place of beginnings and of conclusions it is a place of God.

What am trying to say here is                 

        Guard your heart it is the wellspring of life.

my life

I have learnt that expecting too much from a human being will only disappoint you, it may even hurt you or derail you from your goals and your destiny in the long run...always give yourself the chance to explore possibilities,
As long as that door is still open there is always something that can be done, there is always a chance to do better and in this context is doing beter in not expecting others to be as perfect as you are and not expecting them to have the same world view as you and instead focussing all of that energy into making you a better human being and placing all those expectations on yourself trust me its easier when you know its your fault and you cannot blame anybody else than to put all your expectations on a human being and get dissappointed so go on disappoint yourself and if you are like me you will fall twice thrice even a million times but you will rise and do better.